Wednesday, August 28, 2013

A personal update

It’s hard to believe that it has been nearly two months since we’ve returned.  It has been great reconnecting with friends, settling into life here and getting back into a routine.  Therefore, since we have had so much change and transition from life earlier in the summer I wanted to give a bit more of a personal update this week.

Since we have moved into our home we have managed to discipline ourselves to push through home projects as quickly as possible.  Of the 7 different places we have lived since being married I think this home may be the one we have settled into the quickest.  When we first rented it Scott went straight to work getting permission to move in.  Every foreigner here has to register with the local security so that they can approve our location so as to aid in keeping an eye out for us.  However, this process can sometimes take awhile.  Scott managed to get it done in one day (for more details on that particular adventure check out Scott’s previous blog entry here).  He also got right to work on the house with painting, fixing electrical and water issues as well as getting our personal belongings out of storage and into our new home.  At this point progress slowed down a bit because all of our stuff was chewed up by rodents and covered in excrement.  I know, it sounds gross and sort of overwhelming, but we had sort of suspected that this outcome might be possible.  There are no good options for safe storage here so we took a chance in order to learn that no one should, in fact, ever store their belongings in a garage ever again!  We feel like we sort of took one for the team so that that lesson could be learned!  Anyhow, amazingly, the only things we actually lost were our mattresses.  We had thought we might need to replace more things, but praise God, after some major cleaning and elbow grease we were finally getting things put together and into place in our new home.  We were able to move in about two weeks after arriving in country.
what many pieces of furniture looked like from the dust and rodents

they ate our furniture!

my favorite room in the house!!!
 The kids have all done great settling back in here.  We were blessed to have friends come around us and help with everything from cleaning to moving to childcare those early weeks of being here.  Getting over jet lag was a little rough this time due to having an 11-month old as part of our family, but after getting through it the kids were great and back at having good attitudes and having fun.  This last week both Ethan and Zeke started school.  Ethan is attending a preschool at a homeschool coop that was started here just over two years ago.  Zeke went there for preschool as well.  We are realizing that Ethan has always piggy-backed off of Zeke’s friendships, so this new environment is challenging him to come into his own and make his own friends.  It’s been fun to hear him describe his school day.  His favorite parts are recess and the songs they sing.  A couple days ago he came home with a toothbrush that he had gotten after learning a song about brushing your teeth.  He proceeded to carry that toothbrush around with him for the rest of the day, including taking it to bed with him for his nap! Eliza goes with Ethan two days a week for a program called “moms day out.”  It is an awesome blessing for all of us as I get a kid-free chance to get things done and Eliza gets to play with other kids.  She continues to be a very laid-back kid who laughs easily and is very curious about the things around her.  Just today she made one tiny attempt at walking by taking two little steps towards me.  If any of her other milestones are evidence of her progression it won’t be long now before she will have mastered walking!  Zeke started at a local kindergarten where he is entirely immersed in the local language.  He was pretty nervous to start, but we had prepared him all year for this so he had accepted that it would be different and was ready to walk into this new experience.  We have been so proud of how brave he has been.  The director has given us a little update each day and says that each time he has come he is mixing more and more with the other kids.  They serve lunch there and he came home one day telling us that he had a plate of rice that was “as high as the ceiling!”  Good thing he likes rice!  We have been giving him small phrases to test out and motivating him with small rewards to step out of his comfort zone and interact with the kids in the local language instead of either avoiding them or just talking in English.  So far that is working well for him and we are so relieved with how well it is going.
our happy little girl
the first day of school

the boys making their own adventure

We are also into week two of classes at our center.  Scott is really enjoying being back with students and teaching again.  I got to pinch hit for a class last night and was reminded of how much I enjoy teaching as well.  Tomorrow is our second “coffee shop” night where students can come and practice what they have been learning.  It’s a fun night to get to know our students better and for our kids to be greatly loved on!

So thanks for sticking with this extra long update!  We are excited about how things have been going and have much to continue to look forward to.  Thanks for walking this journey with us.  You are all a part of us and a part of what happens here.  As Paul said in 1 Corinthians 1:4 “I always thank my God for you because of his grace given you in Christ Jesus.”  

Saturday, August 10, 2013

when our Father speaks




I have had a number of conversations over the years with people who wonder how to know when God is speaking to them; I have asked this question as well; my children now ask this question. Some of the obvious answers are through scripture, through prayer and through other people. However, the obviousness of those answers doesn't lessen the complexity we bring to this arena when trying to sort out the distractions and other input we add to the mix.

In my own walk of faith I have seen a pattern of my father God speaking in both obvious as well as more intimate and private ways. Scott and I are together this week with some colleagues and having the opportunity to sit under some wonderful teaching. One of the themes has been on God speaking. This has caused me to reflect on recent days. On that same theme I want to reflect on some things I am thankful for in how I believe that God, the loving Father, is personally speaking to me, personally loving on me.

This transition over the past 6 weeks is one that should send me and my children into a massive tailspin. It hasn't. Not because we are ultra strong people, but because God has been with us and gone before us.  We have been able to accomplish many things in a short period of time. God provided a beautiful home for us. Wonderful friends have come around us to help and encourage, both those here with us and those abroad. God has provided everything we need and even lavished some extra love on us. An example of how He has gone above and beyond is the park across the street from us. I had hoped to find a house with a courtyard that the boys could ride bikes around in and maybe even have room for a kiddie pool. Our house has a beautiful courtyard big enough for this, PLUS right across our street is a beautiful, green park. One thing I miss about the states when we are here is the green of the trees and grass. Well, now we have a green park with lots of trees in it that is cared for all year long and always kept beautiful. Everywhere else around us is barren and brown. God is so good to us! We have also been blessed to be able to reconnect with old friends as if we never left. We also find ourselves in the midst of exciting times here. There is a sense of anticipation. We can't wait to see what God is going to do here!

All this to say that we believe that we are right where God wants us to be and are SO grateful for His provision. We are also extremely thankful for the many of you that pray for us. It is evident that God is moving through those prayers! To Him be all the glory!


the park across the street from our house

Monday, July 15, 2013

Same song, second verse...


Scott here, giving my 2 cents.  Life here is composed of what the West considers horrendous inefficiency.  For us it’s a fine line between a playful shake of the head, and a downward spiral in to cynicism.  Things don’t surprise us as much anymore.  We have learned to take each day in stride with changed expectations of what a “success” is.  Over the past few years I have shared this lesson God teaches me—that He is NOT in a hurry—and I think to reinforce patience as a lifelong lesson, he put my hurry-up personality in this slow-down culture. 

Here’s what I mean.  We arrived in one piece with all our bags and kids in tow, and immediately had to start looking for a house to rent.  We always want to be in a neighborhood to be directly among the people. After looking at several places we found our house, right across the street from a beautiful park and a 5 minute walk from our Center.  Once you find a place you have to get permission from the local police, then you can actually sign the contract.  So I went to the station with the requisite documents, and was sent with another document in an envelope to meet an officer who would give clearance. I got the officer’s phone number and he told me to find him in a park a mile away!  He was just hanging out there with a buddy and so I joined them as he did a brief interview sitting on the grass.  He consented to our living in the house, but found the envelope didn’t have the paper to sign!  The initial officer who prepped it had put it in the wrong envelope.  So the officer in the park sent me back and told me to have the station call him and he’d agree.  That worked out upon my return, but to finish the process they needed my “code.”  This is a number attached to your file, so they can track your housing arrangements if you end up moving within the city.  My code was on a piece of paper tucked inside an elusive purple binder somewhere in our storage garage.  To find it I needed to move into the house, but I couldn’t move until I had the code!  I didn’t think I’d need it, or that at least it’d be in their database if I did.  They sent me to another station in another district in where I had initially received my code to get it from their database, as stations are not networked across the city.  I arrived there only to find that, unsurprisingly, it had moved.  This happens about every year, and the station responsible for a certain neighborhood may be nowhere near it.  Fortunately, a friend is the chief of that station.  When I called he explained in general where it moved to.  After 45 minutes of traffic and asking specific directions, I found it, went inside to their database office, and was told they could not find my code.  I had to return to the initial office in charge of my new neighborhood to do a new interview to get a new code!  Upon returning, the officer thought of one more thing; we could check their own database.  By a miracle the woman working that office recognized me from having entered my data 5 years ago when they went digital.  Still her search came up empty until she had the idea to search by passport number.  Voila!  My info popped up!  She had entered my name in the database in the local alphabet instead of Latin letters, but the searches were all done by Latin script.  What would have been 20 minutes turned into 3 hours, and 20 miles of driving!

Things here just take time.  You can fight it, but you’ll always end up frustrated.  Patience is a lesson thrust upon us on a daily basis.  It’s a good thing too, as the Kingdom grows in this way.  You cannot rush anyone along; you have to go with the speed of God’s current.  Better to pay attention to and synchronize with that, than to try to paddle ahead.