Monday, January 23, 2012

a family update

As you can probably imagine, the reason I am not great at blogging often is because I am kept quite busy with two rambunctious little boys!  I wanted to take this blog and give you a more personal update on our family.

Zeke is 4 going on 14.  He is such a sponge in asking so many questions and learning new things all of the time.  I have actually stopped simplifying explanations for him so much because he is understanding SO much!  His questions range from things about the skeletal structure and muscles, to spiritual questions about sin and who God is.  He goes to a preschool program 3 days a week where he is learning his numbers and letters.  I have discovered through him learning to write his name that we have certainly developed his large motor skills, but the fine motor skills need some work!  Yes, I know he's only 4, but I forget sometimes!  He still enjoys cars, trucks, tanks...well, basically anything that moves!  He and his daddy love doing internet searches on super cars and talking about how each car is unique.  He has several friends from school that he loves to play with and comes home from school each day with tons of stories of adventures had on the playground.  At our language center our students love to sit and talk with him because his language skills are so good that he actually helps them out with language practice!  It is such a joy for us to watch him interact with local people and finding unique ways to connect.

Ethan is a really fun little guy who loves to be silly and laugh all the time.  He is very affectionate and loves to sit and cuddle with Scott and I.  He has tried to cuddle with his brother, but that hasn't worked out as he hoped!  He seems to be very sensitive to those around him and is quick to apologize when he accidentally hurts someone.  In the last month or so his language skills have boomed.  About a month ago we noticed he was way more willing to mimic us and then a couple of weeks ago he started suddenly using tons more words on his own initiative.  His favorite method of communication is still to grab us by the hand and bring us to the thing he is trying to show us or wants us to get for him.  One of my favorite things with him is when we are playing around and tickling him and try to stop and he looks at us as and says "more, more!"  A funny characteristic with him is that he is very slow to wake up.  I usually push his bedroom door open in the mornings to rouse him, but he enjoys laying still for awhile and just watching life from his crib until he finally stands up and tells us "up."  It makes me wonder often about what the teen years are going to look like with him!  He almost always has a car in his hands and loves also to play with anything his brother has.  He's quite the risk taker in watching for his brother to look away and then promptly running away with the toy that Zeke previously had!
Our kids are such a joy in our lives and we try and remember how these times while they are young, although tough and often exhausting, are fleeting.  We are also excited to be awaiting our newest addition, baby #3, coming this July.  This little one will be born in the states as we come back for a time of rest and reconnection.  Scott and I are also doing well.  We have had quite a bit of sickness rip through our home in the last 2 months, but are happy to all currently be healthy!  I am doing my best to balance life and rest as my body works doubly hard to support the growing person inside of me.  We are looking forward to our time in the states next year, but try hard to stay focused on where God has us right now.  It will definitely be hard to leave our teammates and friends behind for an entire year, but as we have learned, this is a life full of transition and goodbyes.  We trust in God for our strength through it all.  So our 2012 is shaping up well so far with some exciting things already happening and more to come through the spring.  God is teaching us so much about ourselves and about Him, and we are so grateful to be on this journey:-)


Tuesday, January 3, 2012

A Christmas Extravaganza


We have had some exciting times these last few weeks.  We have had ample opportunity to think on, reflect and share our reasons for celebrating Christmas!  We love being able to share so much of who we are with our friends.  This really serves to deepen our relationships here.  It also helps our friends be able to understand us better.  Basically it is an awesome thing all around!

We have been changing up our coffee shop nights at our language center this past semester.  In the past we have had open conversation nights where we play games, sip coffee and allow our students to practice their English.  However, we were looking for something to spice things up and increase the educational opportunities this fall by adding a bit more structure and preparation to the time.  What we came up with were nights where we had Q&A with your teacher, a period of time where you rotate between games or planned conversations, and then ended the night with some open conversation time and enjoyed some cake and coffee.  We also hosted our very first American culture night!  It was a blast teaching our students about American sports, dance, slang, pop culture and history.  In that same vein we used our Christmas party to impart some wisdom as well.  Scott did a wonderful presentation on the cultural and faith-based parts of Christmas.  Our students really liked it and came away with a better understanding while also learning how to string popcorn for our center tree!  The thing is here, people believe that Christmas and New Years are the same thing.  Over these past four years we have worked with our friends to differentiate between the two.  This has worked well with those close to us…so well that we got a bunch of calls on the 25th wishing us a merry Christmas!  It was wonderful to have that display of care for us and showing that they remember!

 

We also hosted our traditional Christmas drama with our international fellowship.  We invited all of our friends and had an amazing 160 people show up this year.  A wonderful group from Wyoming came out and put on a drama for us depicting the Christmas story through the remembrances of an elderly Mary.  We enjoyed conversation and Christmas cookies together afterwards.  One family who is in the baking business brought a HUGE cake in the shape of a cross to share with us!  It was a wonderful and elaborate surprise!


 

 
The other opportunity we took advantage of was having our ladies together again at our center to celebrate the season.  Some friends from New Jersey blessed us with a suitcase full of special treats, gifts, decorations and an ornament craft.  It was a smaller group that was able to come, but it made for a very intimate event.  We are really blessed to be able to do life together with our friends here and share our time, culture and sacred beliefs.  We ended the afternoon with one of our interns teaching us a really fun dance!
 
 

We hope that your holiday was spent in a meaningful way and that the things God is teaching you will continue to grown and deepen as we begin a new year.  We are very thankful that God has us where He does and are grateful to serve among these people.  We are also thankful to all of YOU who support us across the many miles and think of us especially this time of year!  Coming next…a family update.  Stay tuned!