Monday, July 15, 2013

Same song, second verse...


Scott here, giving my 2 cents.  Life here is composed of what the West considers horrendous inefficiency.  For us it’s a fine line between a playful shake of the head, and a downward spiral in to cynicism.  Things don’t surprise us as much anymore.  We have learned to take each day in stride with changed expectations of what a “success” is.  Over the past few years I have shared this lesson God teaches me—that He is NOT in a hurry—and I think to reinforce patience as a lifelong lesson, he put my hurry-up personality in this slow-down culture. 

Here’s what I mean.  We arrived in one piece with all our bags and kids in tow, and immediately had to start looking for a house to rent.  We always want to be in a neighborhood to be directly among the people. After looking at several places we found our house, right across the street from a beautiful park and a 5 minute walk from our Center.  Once you find a place you have to get permission from the local police, then you can actually sign the contract.  So I went to the station with the requisite documents, and was sent with another document in an envelope to meet an officer who would give clearance. I got the officer’s phone number and he told me to find him in a park a mile away!  He was just hanging out there with a buddy and so I joined them as he did a brief interview sitting on the grass.  He consented to our living in the house, but found the envelope didn’t have the paper to sign!  The initial officer who prepped it had put it in the wrong envelope.  So the officer in the park sent me back and told me to have the station call him and he’d agree.  That worked out upon my return, but to finish the process they needed my “code.”  This is a number attached to your file, so they can track your housing arrangements if you end up moving within the city.  My code was on a piece of paper tucked inside an elusive purple binder somewhere in our storage garage.  To find it I needed to move into the house, but I couldn’t move until I had the code!  I didn’t think I’d need it, or that at least it’d be in their database if I did.  They sent me to another station in another district in where I had initially received my code to get it from their database, as stations are not networked across the city.  I arrived there only to find that, unsurprisingly, it had moved.  This happens about every year, and the station responsible for a certain neighborhood may be nowhere near it.  Fortunately, a friend is the chief of that station.  When I called he explained in general where it moved to.  After 45 minutes of traffic and asking specific directions, I found it, went inside to their database office, and was told they could not find my code.  I had to return to the initial office in charge of my new neighborhood to do a new interview to get a new code!  Upon returning, the officer thought of one more thing; we could check their own database.  By a miracle the woman working that office recognized me from having entered my data 5 years ago when they went digital.  Still her search came up empty until she had the idea to search by passport number.  Voila!  My info popped up!  She had entered my name in the database in the local alphabet instead of Latin letters, but the searches were all done by Latin script.  What would have been 20 minutes turned into 3 hours, and 20 miles of driving!

Things here just take time.  You can fight it, but you’ll always end up frustrated.  Patience is a lesson thrust upon us on a daily basis.  It’s a good thing too, as the Kingdom grows in this way.  You cannot rush anyone along; you have to go with the speed of God’s current.  Better to pay attention to and synchronize with that, than to try to paddle ahead.

Saturday, July 6, 2013

"As we begin our descent into..."

Those who know me well know that flying is not one of my favorite pastimes. However, in our life it is a necessity I must face regularly, so one of my favorite things is when I hear the pilot's voice come over the PA saying "as we begin our descent..." This brief announcement tells me our long journey is nearing its end. 

We have had a lot of transition over this last month, so when I  heard the captain of the flight of our final leg of our journey say these anticipated words I felt free to finally let the tears come. I have a sweet friend that I have had the privilege if spending a lot of time with this past year who grew up in an overseas context. One of the things I love hearing her talk about is her childhood and the way she refers to the local culture as "my people."  As I contemplated the many emotions I was feeling in those last moments on the plane while listening to those around me speaking a foreign, yet familiar, language around me I suddenly understood my friend's sentiments: these were my people. 

Being away from here for an entire year didn't seem like all that long as we were enjoying our time with family and appreciating a context we innately understood. However, as we approached our city the extent of our time away began to weigh on me. As we have driven around the last couple days and as we have reunited with friends I have realized just how much I have missed this place and even more these people. Time away has the effect of melting away cynicism and  negativity and leaving what matters: anticipation and hope for what our time here will bring and a renewed love and appreciation of the people. 

We have a lot we need to accomplish in these early days back. However, I want to keep my enthusiasm and hope for many days to come. I know there will be a time in the not-too-distant future where I will need a short break from this context. However, for this time I am enjoying being back. Another friend of mine who serves overseas when asked how she felt about returning to her own context responded: "resolute." I totally understand that response. In the moments when we are frustrated with how it takes great periods of time to accomplish one task, we are resolute; when I am rocking a very restless infant at 3am whose body is telling her it is an appropriate time to be wide awake, we are resolute; when we feel ill and tired as our bodies adjust back to this time zone and the food here, we are resolute. 

However, as we reconnect with our friends and re-ingrain ourselves in this place and in our purpose, that is where we find joy. I am so thankful to be back here. As I was saying goodbye to friends and family and packing up our life in America (once again) I was a little fearful and hesitant. Now I do not feel that way at all. Now I greatly anticipate all that God has for us and find joy and contentment in whatever may lie before us. As the apostle Paul said in his letter to the Philippians "I know what is to be in need and to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."